Ok, I was waiting to have a question and have one now.
I met this girl on sunday doing an outdoor activitiy with many people and I asked her on monday using Facebook if she was the same girl from sunday and she said yes. She then added me as a «friend» on Fb (she knew what I wanted, it was obvious) and we talked a little on monday late in the evening (still on Fb). I asked her a question wednesday evening (still on Fb
) and by te time she got to my question we talked for an hour on thursday morning, before she left for work (she's also a student, so I guess it's her summer job).
My friend told me to wait a few days before I talk to her again and that make sense. But after a few days, is it too soon to make a «move»? I talked to her on sunday about a book that I have and she showed interest in it. I could tell her that the book is at our local library (it is), or that we could meet so she could borrow the book from me. We could meet just for a few minutes or maybe more, if she wants to. My friend don't know if it's too soon because he doesn't know her. What do you think out there? Too soon or not?
I think she likes me, but it may be just as a friend ( I have no idea). Should I keep talking to her on facebook for a while before asking for a real date or the book idea is a good idea (I'm waiting for tuesday, as she is out on monday anyway)? The «problem» with the book idea is that she may anwser that she will pick it up at our local library or we may see each others just for a few minutes. It would not be as clear as asking for a date straight up and I could end up not knowing where to stand with this girl.