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01-26-2016, 07:29 PM #1
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My VC fam, I need help.

I have the foulest mouth ever, and it's starting to get embarrassing and pathetic. 

How can I stop myself from swearing all the time?! 

It happens more at home than anywhere else. HELP ME PLEASE.  Sad

"Our lives end when we become silent about things that matter" - Martin Luther King Jr


An Arab poet said:

                  The vast ocean feels no harm
                  When the boy pitches into it a rock.
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01-26-2016, 07:48 PM #2
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Better watch your fucking language.

Whoops.

Lol I'll be of no help. Wink

It's a struggle for many of us, I'm sure. Ha-ha.

I know you're coming in the night like a thief, but I've had some time alone, to hone my lying technique. I know you think that I'm someone you can trust, but I'm scared I'll get scared, and I swear I'll try to nail you back up. So do you think that we could work out a sign, so I'll know it's you and that it's over so I won't even try? I know you're coming for the people like me. We've all got wood and nails, turned out in a hate factory.
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01-26-2016, 07:50 PM #3
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(01-26-2016, 07:29 PM)xoa. Wrote:  My VC fam, I need help.

I have the foulest mouth ever, and it's starting to get embarrassing and pathetic. 

How can I stop myself from swearing all the time?! 

It happens more at home than anywhere else. HELP ME PLEASE.  Sad

Ask your god to help you if you have one. (Sorry, I think you may have said you are a muslim but I can't remember.)

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.  1John 4:1

Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8
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01-26-2016, 08:04 PM #4
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Loool, thanks T!  Wink

And thank you Lisa, good suggestion and you are correct. I will do tonight!  Smile

"Our lives end when we become silent about things that matter" - Martin Luther King Jr


An Arab poet said:

                  The vast ocean feels no harm
                  When the boy pitches into it a rock.
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01-26-2016, 08:22 PM #5
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(01-26-2016, 07:29 PM)xoa. Wrote:  My VC fam, I need help.

I have the foulest mouth ever, and it's starting to get embarrassing and pathetic. 

How can I stop myself from swearing all the time?! 

It happens more at home than anywhere else. HELP ME PLEASE.  Sad

As somebody who has had many years of being reprimanded for swearing so much from other people I say fuck them! Nothing worse than swearing, swearing is a way of offloading which is a lot better than being violent, swearing can actually be a positive thing, again as someone who has dealt with chronic pain for years I know that swearing helps coping with pain and its actually been scientifically proven!!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypoalgesi...f_swearing

I still swear a lot now years later and almost 40 but not quite as much, I think. Try not to do it in front of children but anybody else can go fuck themselves lol and I do think I tend to save it up for when am really in pain or really really angry then its just a torrent of abuse :o



I do have some replacement words for swearing which I use when I am trying not to swear or be polite if I really have to but I think they sound better scottish:

Shit = Shengis

For fucks sake = for falling out a window (windae)

Bastard - Barsteward

Cunt - cfrrruusshhhaaaagghh
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01-26-2016, 08:24 PM #6
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(01-26-2016, 08:22 PM)cameronjcw Wrote:  Shit = Shengis

Shengis could work for me... but only because Genghis was such a cfrrruusshhhaaaagghh

Out beyond ideas
of wrong-doing,


and right-doing,

there is a field...

...I'll meet you there.
€



Jalaluddin Rumi
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01-26-2016, 08:56 PM #7
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I'm Scottish too! I'm crying at for falling out a window! I'll defo be using that one.

"Our lives end when we become silent about things that matter" - Martin Luther King Jr


An Arab poet said:

                  The vast ocean feels no harm
                  When the boy pitches into it a rock.
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01-26-2016, 09:42 PM #8
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(01-26-2016, 07:50 PM)Lisa Wrote:  
(01-26-2016, 07:29 PM)xoa. Wrote:  My VC fam, I need help.

I have the foulest mouth ever, and it's starting to get embarrassing and pathetic. 

How can I stop myself from swearing all the time?! 

It happens more at home than anywhere else. HELP ME PLEASE.  Sad

Ask your god to help you if you have one. (Sorry, I think you may have said you are a muslim but I can't remember.)

Her God is Almighty God who revealed the Torah the Gospel and Quran.  God of all the Prophets including Moses and Jesus.  Your God  -  One God -  Creator of all that exists.   I hope you will realize that one day.  It would make it so much more pleasant to interact with you on these forums. 

Anyhow, The tips here are flippin hilarious!  Especially Cam, I nearly fell off my chair!   And that's my exchange word:  flippin  -  flippen' dippin' and flippy dippy.  And  sheist (rhymes with heist)
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01-26-2016, 09:52 PM #9
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(01-26-2016, 09:42 PM)khadeejah Wrote:  
(01-26-2016, 07:50 PM)Lisa Wrote:  
(01-26-2016, 07:29 PM)xoa. Wrote:  My VC fam, I need help.

I have the foulest mouth ever, and it's starting to get embarrassing and pathetic. 

How can I stop myself from swearing all the time?! 

It happens more at home than anywhere else. HELP ME PLEASE.  Sad

Ask your god to help you if you have one. (Sorry, I think you may have said you are a muslim but I can't remember.)

Her God is Almighty God who revealed the Torah the Gospel and Quran.  God of all the Prophets including Moses and Jesus.  Your God  -  One God -  Creator of all that exists.   I hope you will realize that one day.  It would make it so much more pleasant to interact with you on these forums. 

Anyhow, The tips here are flippin hilarious!  Especially Cam, I nearly fell off my chair!   And that's my exchange word:  flippin  -  flippen' dippin' and flippy dippy.  And  sheist (rhymes with heist)


If you read Khadeejah, I said I was sorry that I couldn't remember if she was a muslim or not. Haha why try to turn this thread into another debate off topic? Xoa really wants some advice to help her.

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.  1John 4:1

Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8
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01-26-2016, 09:56 PM #10
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(01-26-2016, 09:52 PM)Lisa Wrote:  If you read Khadeejah, I said I was sorry that I couldn't remember if she was a muslim or not. Haha why try to turn this thread into another debate off topic? Xoa really wants some advice to help her.

I sure did read it Lisa and you told her to pray to "her god" as if He is different then the true God.  No debating, just stating facts.    

And I gave some advice  -  but your advice was the best of all (really).  

  Since I see there are many pleasantries being spread around here - I bid you a good night and to all the VCF' ers  (oh no that sounds to close to a swear word).
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